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Our House: Behind Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young’s Era-Defining Hit
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Our House: Behind Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young’s Era-Defining Hit

Written by Graham Nash about life with Joni Mitchell, CSNY’s Our House symbolised domestic bliss for the hippie generation.

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While Crosby, Stills & Nash’s self-titled debut album had been a runaway success in 1969, the supergroup became that bit more super when Neil Young came on board for 1970’s Déjà Vu. Released in March 1970, that album was certified gold in the US within two weeks of its release, and has it has since gone on to sell more than eight million copies worldwide. It also helped the quartet became Laurel Canyon royalty and countercultural heroes thanks to the inclusion of era-defining songs such as David Crosby’s defiant Almost Cut My Hair and Graham Nash’s Our House, plus the group’s cover of Joni Mitchell’s Woodstock. Mitchell had also helped inspire Our House, a song whose celebration of simple domestic pleasures defined the public perception of hippiedom.

Listen to the best of Crosby, Stills & Nash here.

On CSN’s debut album, Nash’s gentle and melodic tunes, including Marrakesh Express and Lady Of The Island, had provided a counterpoint to Stephen Stills’ swaggering and soulful rock and David Crosby’s stoned mysticism. On Déjà Vu, Nash’s pop sensibility again gave the album balance, with the sweet, idealistic country of Teach Your Children and the gentle harmony-pop of Our House chosen as the album’s second and third singles, respectively.

It makes sense that Nash’s songs were deemed entry points for the wider public: accessible and relatable, they spoke of everyday things. This was especially true of Our House, which was inspired by a day Nash spent with his then partner, Joni Mitchell.

The inspiration: “That’s an ordinary moment that many people would share”

In 2023, Nash told The Library Of Congress how the song came about: “I’d taken Joni to breakfast at a delicatessen on Ventura Boulevard in Los Angeles… When we had finished breakfast, we were walking back to Joni’s car and went past an antique store… She spotted a vase at the back of the antique-store window. It was about ten inches high. It had some hand-painted flowers around one edge and was reasonably cheap, so she bought it.”

After returning to their Lauren Canyon home, Nash decided to light a fire while Mitchell arranged some flowers for the vase – simple domestic actions that gave Nash the opening lines for what would become Our House. “I thought, Well that’s an ordinary moment, but a moment that many people would share,” Nash said. “And so I wrote Our House for her. Took me about an hour and a half, maybe. Simple song. It really does sound like poetry set to music.”

Graham Nash on Joni Mitchell: “She was an important person in my life”

Nash’s knack for making the humdrum hummable resonated with fans who, following Our House’s release as a single, on 5 November 1969, pushed the song to No.30 on the US Billboard Hot 100. But the song’s writer has always given credit to the woman who inspired it. Speaking to Stereogum in 2022, Nash remained effusive when it came to Mitchell’s gifts.

“Joni is a brilliant woman,” he said. She’s obviously one of the best of our kind of songwriting. It was very obvious from the first night I met her, when she played me 15 songs that knocked me on my ass. I had never heard music like that… She wrote songs for me, I wrote songs for her, I wrote songs about falling in love with her, I wrote songs about breaking up with her. She was an important person in my life. I loved her dearly, and I love her to this day.”

The recording: “I knew it was a song that would interest my partners”

A piano demo recording of Our House, featuring Nash and Mitchell harmonising after giggling at a mid-song mistake, was a highlight of 2021’s deluxe edition of Déjà Vu. But such was the musical prowess on offer to Nash at the time, he knew that Our House couldn’t be a solo song.

“I knew it was a song that would interest my partners,” he told Billboard in 2018. “We had what we laughingly refer to as The Reality Rule, which is this: If I sit down and play you a song and you don’t react, you’ll probably never hear that song again. But if I play a song to David [Crosby] and Stephen [Stills], and David knows what he’s already going to do in the chorus and Stephen’s thinking of a guitar intro, now we’re talking. So it’s only the songs that all three of us loved that got recorded.”

The finished version of Our House certainly feels full of love. Though Nash takes the lead, his bandmates back him up with their distinctive vocal blend, brimming with warmth and joy. The song has become a modern standard, used in TV shows from The Simpsons to Cheers, while soundtracking countless small moments of real-life love. CSNY’s song about an ordinary moment proved anything but ordinary.

Buy CSNY’s ‘Live At Fillmore East, 1969’.

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